Rotherwick Consulting was founded to provide coaching, consultancy, teaching, training, clinical and research supervision for individuals, couples, families and organisations, all over the world.

Dr Reenee Singh

I am a Consultant Family, Couples Systemic psychotherapist with almost thirty years of clinical experience.

You can find out more about me and my work on my website:

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Coaching for Intercultural Couples

The growth in immigration, changes in social mores and expectations, and advances in global technology have contributed to an increase in intercultural relationships worldwide, including interracial, interfaith, interethnic, and international partnerships (Singh et al, 2020). There has been recent media interest in intercultural and interracial relationships, exemplified by Harry and Megan’s union. The resurgence of the Black Lives Matter movement has highlighted issues for interracial couples, such as the impact of racism and the challenges of parenting children and young people of dual heritage.

Organisational Consultancy & Training on Diversity within teams

Contemporary organisational teams are composed of individuals from a variety of cultural, class, religious and racial backgrounds. Diversity within teams can create differences in communication styles and ways of organising and providing tasks and services. Further, remote working creates opportunities for working across national and global boundaries and require an appreciation of different communication and working styles. We offer workshops in which, through a range of experiential, visual and representational exercises, participants will learn how to recognise and respect each other’s diversity, in order to work more harmoniously.

Coaching for Couples and Families in how to manage finances

To think about the effects of money on their relationships. This includes working closely with solicitors around inheritance issues, financial planning, succession planning and how that impacts on relationships in adult families.

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    After a really rough patch in our relationship we went to see Reenne for intercultural couples counselling/coaching. After five sessions everything has changed. It feels like our big problems are hardly there any more and when they affect our relationship we are much better at understanding what is going on and dealing with them.

    Reenee helped us understand each other better and gave us ways to improve our communication. She helped us identify where our differing cultural backgrounds had led to differing expectations of each other. Making these explicit allowed us to make agreements about how we could better fulfil each other's needs.

    Reenee made us feel comfortable with the non-judgemental way she listened to us. She also knew when to be firm and tell us which behaviours were not good for the relationship and encouraged us to commit to cut them out.

    I would recommend Reenee to anyone who would like to improve their relationship - she made a huge difference to ours.

    Reenee has been an exceptional therapist to us both. We seeked her out during a time after some major trauma, and in the middle of making some large life changing decisions and she helped guide us through the stickier aspects of our relationship perfectly. She really understood the international aspect of our relationship and how that presented us with different difficulties compared to a standard relationship and helped us to overcome our fears and anxieties. We were about to move to my husband's home country and get married in a quick decision to not be separated and she really made sure we had addressed all of the potential complications and feelings before we did so. We are a much stronger and happier couple because of her and will always return to her as our trusted guide through married life whenever the occasion occurs.

    Wife (New Zealand) & Husband (Italy)

    We want to say thank you to Reenee for transforming our relationship. She helped us to move past a difficult time in our relationship and a year later we married and are now embarking on building a life together. Reenee's sessions allowed us to explore each other's perspectives and emotions. It also helped us to communicate with each other. We still use these skills to this day and it's improved our relationship immensely. We are so grateful to Reenee for helping us find each other and ourselves.

    When we first came to Reenee we were at a point where we we really wanted to stay together but we had got to a point where we were both becoming very reactive. We had been unable to break the negative patterns we were in and we were struggling to communicate about the important cultural issues (especially family expectations) without turning into an argument.

    Reenee was able to help us decode how our cultural and family backgrounds (Indian and British) impact the way we think, and how we should communicate respectfully and in a way that is good for our relationship. We've also now got an understanding of how to approach culturally sensitive issues in a neutral and safe space without setting each other off. Post our sessions with Reenee we clearly see a big difference in how we live our daily lives as a couple together. She created a trusted and neutral environment where we could both share how we felt. We have learned so many useful techniques which we will, hopefully, keep in our relationship for life.

    Reenee was able to identify our issues very quickly and help us understand how we can break negative patterns we’d fallen in to. She helped us understand how to work constructively through our issues and how to help us avoid escalating and to communicate effectively with each other. She’s taught us so much and has had a hugely positive impact on our relationship in such a short period of time while giving us constructive feedback.

    We really needed an expert who understood the culture clash between East and West so she was exactly the right person for us, we couldn’t recommend her more. Her direct but non judgmental manner worked really well for both of us. We are so grateful.